AFRAID TO START OVER?
Starting over can be frightening because leaving costs something. But staying costs something too.
Quick Summary: Starting over incurs immediate, visible costs: forfeiting seniority, temporary financial uncertainty, and social embarrassment. But remaining has a cost too—billed in quiet resentment, spiritual burnout, and wasted years. The question is which invoice you choose to pay.
THE TWO-COST AUDIT
Weigh the cost of leaving against the cost of staying. Temporary, front-loaded expenses vs. permanent, compounding penalties.
TAKE THE REALITY CHECK
Figure out what's actually holding you here with the AntiStoic Reality Check at https://antistoic.com/whats-eating-you?topic=direction